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The
Platonic Society of Cast-Off Husbands
I
hadn't planned to start taking in my friends'
cast-off husbands anymore than I had planned
for my husband to die. It was just what happened.
One day he was fine, the next day he had cancer.
It was never clear on which day those cells
began to replicate and grow one on top of
the other. Nor was it clear when my friends'
marriages had began to collapse; when the
little cells of their niggles began to cluster
and grow and suffocate the vital organs of
their relationships with their husbands. A
marriage isn't good one day and bad the next,
it's a slow process of decay, not noticeable
at first. It nibbles away until the cancerous
cluster of niggles has poisoned all the space
and no one can live there.
The
odd thing is all my friends are in their forties
and so are their husbands. Some were a love
match; some married because they were there
when the old ovaries let out the mating call.
In the end it doesn't matter, whether married
for love or convenience, about four years
after the big 40, the husband is asked to
leave. It is usually news to him that anything
was wrong and so it was that a succession
of bewildered men began to turn up on my doorstep.
I thought I would take them in and keep them
safe until my friends wanted them back. I
knew how lonely it is raising kids without
a partner, and felt sure that they would change
their minds given a little time and space.
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